letting go again

i posted about letting go..the pain and strengths of it few weeks ago...how we realize it takes more strength to let go rather than holding on..yes it does take a lot of strength..an awful lot of it...i am posting about it again today cause I've come to discover the exhilarating feeling of letting go..maybe its the light at the end of the tunnel..and i must say the tunnel is quite a nice happy place..why are we scared to let go...why do we hold on for dear life..most of us..definitely me..disagree with change..oh the monotony of routine is often so comforting isn't it..so change can bring about loneliness..it can be too hectic or boring..what ever the case maybe we all fear the unknown and would like to hold on for eternity what ever we have right here right now...I have to come to discover that sometimes letting go is the best thing u could do for yourself whether we are decluttering our kitchen shelves..our emotions..our friends..our lives...we have to let go sometimes...n believe me the feeling is wonderful..and definley not that painful as you thought it might be...always always believe that to let go is a treat u can give yourself...its a boost u can give yourself...is a breather u need to give yourself...and yes i am breathing free today...and i hope you are too :)

letting go

most of us tend to think that to hold on is the greatest strengths we have...no matter what...no matter how painful..i m still holding on..thats how strong i am..but i tend to think different maybe we hold on because we are weak,,,because we are scared of the unknown..maybe because we worry about change..or simply because we want something to hold onto...but does strength always come from pain..why are we brought up to believe the more pain the more lessons we learn..maybe pain is good..maybe helps us to be better people..but maybe makes us very bitter people too...makes us very angry people too..why not let go of the pain..why not just tell yourself that being happy or finding happiness also takes a lot courage,,,you have to rise up above a lot of obstacles actually to get a glimpse of happiness so why not chose that instead of holding onto that pain...i think its always better to chose happiness over pain..

random thoughts

its been a while since i posted..been a bit busy.....
i find myself randomly thinking about kindness a lot....i talk about kindness a lot...cause it appeals to me..reaches my heart..deep inside...maybe because i don't sense it in others anymore...or because i don't see it happening as i walk on the roads...go into a random shop...ask for a service at the bank..at hospitals..at restaurants..
yet it just makes me go bonkers if i see it happen anywhere...i get so touched..just fills my heart...my soul..whether its a random sincere smile u get as u walk by...or someone helping you with your shopping bags...its such a blessing to see someone take even a second out of their lives to help you with yours....its absolute bliss...wonderful..and i crave to see that..and i try my best to be that..ok not always i get appreciated..people have become so oblivious...not maybe intentionally...maybe the world has made us like that..thats why its but wonderful to see people rise above the rest and show us a random act of kindness :)