letting go again

i posted about letting go..the pain and strengths of it few weeks ago...how we realize it takes more strength to let go rather than holding on..yes it does take a lot of strength..an awful lot of it...i am posting about it again today cause I've come to discover the exhilarating feeling of letting go..maybe its the light at the end of the tunnel..and i must say the tunnel is quite a nice happy place..why are we scared to let go...why do we hold on for dear life..most of us..definitely me..disagree with change..oh the monotony of routine is often so comforting isn't it..so change can bring about loneliness..it can be too hectic or boring..what ever the case maybe we all fear the unknown and would like to hold on for eternity what ever we have right here right now...I have to come to discover that sometimes letting go is the best thing u could do for yourself whether we are decluttering our kitchen shelves..our emotions..our friends..our lives...we have to let go sometimes...n believe me the feeling is wonderful..and definley not that painful as you thought it might be...always always believe that to let go is a treat u can give yourself...its a boost u can give yourself...is a breather u need to give yourself...and yes i am breathing free today...and i hope you are too :)

letting go

most of us tend to think that to hold on is the greatest strengths we have...no matter what...no matter how painful..i m still holding on..thats how strong i am..but i tend to think different maybe we hold on because we are weak,,,because we are scared of the unknown..maybe because we worry about change..or simply because we want something to hold onto...but does strength always come from pain..why are we brought up to believe the more pain the more lessons we learn..maybe pain is good..maybe helps us to be better people..but maybe makes us very bitter people too...makes us very angry people too..why not let go of the pain..why not just tell yourself that being happy or finding happiness also takes a lot courage,,,you have to rise up above a lot of obstacles actually to get a glimpse of happiness so why not chose that instead of holding onto that pain...i think its always better to chose happiness over pain..

random thoughts

its been a while since i posted..been a bit busy.....
i find myself randomly thinking about kindness a lot....i talk about kindness a lot...cause it appeals to me..reaches my heart..deep inside...maybe because i don't sense it in others anymore...or because i don't see it happening as i walk on the roads...go into a random shop...ask for a service at the bank..at hospitals..at restaurants..
yet it just makes me go bonkers if i see it happen anywhere...i get so touched..just fills my heart...my soul..whether its a random sincere smile u get as u walk by...or someone helping you with your shopping bags...its such a blessing to see someone take even a second out of their lives to help you with yours....its absolute bliss...wonderful..and i crave to see that..and i try my best to be that..ok not always i get appreciated..people have become so oblivious...not maybe intentionally...maybe the world has made us like that..thats why its but wonderful to see people rise above the rest and show us a random act of kindness :)

kindness...

As we go about our day..as we get to work..drop kids to school...run into the grocery store..its that one act of kindness we experience which lingers on our minds the whole day..did someone smile at you - genuinely..did someone hold the door for u..did someone give u their turn in queue because your shopping basket was more full..did someone ask you if you were ok cause you looked bit unsettled..what ever the case maybe your heart warmed up cause someone took that extra minute out of their lives to give your health and your well being a thought..now isn't that just nice..doesn't a smile just creep up as you sigh take in that deep breadth..
in today's hectic and busy world..we all are in a hurry..in a rush..in a race..to get to the next place..forever with a frown since we seem to be not beating the race..cause someone else is winning..always tensed..always in that mess..never a moment of peace..a moment of calm... and yet someone showed you a random act of kindness..someone smiled..someone lent a hand......
Why have we forgotten to do that??.why the race??.why the constant need to win??
force that smile upon your face..take out a few seconds to smile..the world will not end..even if it did better face it with a smile huh..take out few seconds to look out for the next person..to think for the next person..win or lose you are still doing it happy with a lighter heart..the world may or may not become a better place but you could become better :)

dozzing off

though i hoped to write more it doesn't seem to be that easy...
A day doesn't necessarily go the way one hopes for..sometimes feels unfair..unseen unnecessary events sprout out of nowhere..so hoped to catch that movie on cable..looked forward to that planned outing..needed that power nap..had to finish the paper before the deadline..yet time was not favorable..time was being mean and rude..just didn't realize how it flew by..only knew that it left one with heavy shoulders...arrrrgh..why me..one could scream..on most occasions an actual scream would really help..now lost time cannot be returned..frowning is only going to hurt the eyebrows ( and we do need a good pair of those huh)...what can be done..what could have been done..why bother..lets not let time take one on again..inhale n take in every second..every minute..the meaner the time,,,take it in more..feel calm..look at the situation..n take in the moment..n do not let time do that sprint...live the moment..live the now...good or bad..its my time..

here it goes again...writing my first post of the day..it is beautiful and sunny day ( sounds cliche' eh?) yup its a fresh morning... we are all going about our day..sitting at our work desk..winding up breakfast with friends..just woke up....doing our daily laundry..its all about start of a new day :)
Its my first time writing a blog..so just trying to get a grasp of this..maybe share my thoughts..rant a little..crack a joke..the aim is to shape this up so that i could spread some positivity...in a world full of hate and spite..wish me luck..

a day comes to an end...has it been a good day..a bad day..an awesome day..can attribute as many adjectives possible..but its another day that has left us...did we do it right?? did we get things done?? or did we just idle our time? is it important to ask these questions..or is it not?
At the end of it all..its nice to know..good to feel that we lived another day..we met friends..we hugged our kids..had a great coffee..
or is it still hurting that we felt lonely..had to cry over that argument..met that awful person again..got snubbed..
what ever the case maybe,,we lived through another day...went through pain or laughter..guilt or relief, love or anger..we felt emotions..we breathed...we lived...good night world..be blessed